The 10 Most Effective Ways to Communicate with a Child

It is very important to communicate effectively with the child in order to establish a healthy family bond. Many of the complaints, such as I cannot control my child or he does not stop until he gets what he wants, stem from not being able to communicate properly with children. Parents sometimes do not realize the mistakes they make while communicating with the child. In this article, we both touched on these points and talked about what you need to pay attention to in order to communicate effectively with the child!

1. Know how to listen

No matter what the age is, “knowing to listen to the other person” while communicating is a feature that we should all have. The fact that the other person has a child does not change this situation much. No matter what happens, you should not pretend to listen to your child, you can be sure that you will feel it right away. Parents who say I can’t communicate with my child need to consider whether they are a particularly good listener to their child. A child who is aware of being listened to and cared for will be a more self-confident individual.

2. Make eye contact

One of the most important things to do to communicate correctly with children is to get down to the same height level and talk to them by looking into their eyes. You can even hold him in your arms and talk. This makes children feel both loving and valued. Communicating from where you are can make your child feel that you are approaching him in a threatening manner and speaking as if you are giving orders. Make sure to make eye contact while talking. So he will feel important.

3. Become a guide

The child should always make an effort to solve his problems. As a parent, you should guide him when he has difficulties, instead of offering direct solutions. In this way, he will see that he can find solutions to problems and this will increase his self-confidence. He will not always be in a demanding attitude when he encounters a problem.

4. Highlighting negative traits

Even if he has been wrong, you should not slam this situation in your child’s face as a big mistake. When you talk about this situation, emphasizing the positive aspects first will make her feel that your love for her child is not missing. In order to communicate effectively with the child, it is much more accurate to emphasize the negative behaviors with their reasons after the positive ones and to take decisions together for the solution.

5. Be honest

What is communication with the child, in short, it is trust. The child, who has a secure attachment to his mother and father , becomes an individual who is more empathetic and able to express himself better in the later stages of his life. In other words, it is important for the child to grow up in a triangle of love, trust and honesty. Communication with the child should always be within the framework of honesty.

Sometimes parents tell their children to obey, “Uncle police will take you if you don’t finish your meal.” They can frighten the child and harm their mental health with false statements such as Since the child is not in the developmental stage to understand this situation, he can code the police as something to be afraid of and act with the motive of this fear every time. You should use clear and clear expressions to your child in every matter, and you should not give up honesty for a healthy communication.

6. Keep your promises

You should never hold back on what you promised. This undermines your child’s trust in you, and your child may no longer care about your words. This can lead to unwanted crises between you. If you have promised your child to play in the evening, make sure to keep that promise. Don’t make promises you can’t keep otherwise.

7. Do routine activities

The special times and activities you spend with each other are very important while communicating with the child. As mom and dad, do special routine activities together every night. Especially during the epidemic, it has become much more difficult to communicate with the child. The fact that the child does not have a space to throw his energy out and spending time together in the house can lead to stressful situations. That’s why, including activities that you can do together every night so that your child can throw off his energy correctly will both relax you and strengthen your relationship.

8. Alert when crossing limits

You should plan what your child will do during the day in accordance with his age. He should be aware of questions such as how long he will play with the tablet and when to collect his toys. Thus, he can be aware that he is an individual by knowing his own limits. Even when he exceeds his own limits, warn your child without scolding or offending him. At this point, it is very important that parent communication creates a common language. When you say something, your spouse should not say the opposite. This may cause confusion in the child.

Forbidden, set free

The child who is constantly blocked may become unable to do anything after a while. Allowing him freedom and taking responsibility while communicating with the child will develop his will. Instead of saying “don’t do it”, you should use encouraging sentences like “try it, good luck”.

10. Be patient

Perhaps the most important feature you should have in communicating with your child is patience. It is very important to be aware that the other person is still a child. In order to have this patience, you need to take time for yourself and be aware of your expectations. Remember that as long as you are happy, you can raise a happy child.

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